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Shoulda,Coulda,Would you?? March 31, 2012

Filed under: Food For Thought — p.h.a.p.ulous @ 8:02 pm
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I often hear people say if I had to do it again I would do (insert thought) and I begin wondering if you could do it all again would you???  There are a lot of things we see other people do and we often say if I was younger, slimmer, richer, or smarter I would (again insert comment here).  This got me to wondering why people always assume that when you get a certain age or status you cannot do things you dreamt.  Who says you can’t open that  business you’ve always wanted to try?  Why don’t you take that high school or college course you are afraid to take?  Why don’t you just go for it and see what happens?  What stops us from doing the things our heart truly desires?  Are we that conditioned to think that dreams do not come true for the ordinary average person?   What’s stopping you from your greatness??  For a long time my hinderance was fear.  At the time I didn’t know that my fear was masked with tons of excuses of why I should wait to live my dreams.  Then one day I had my aha moment and realized it was me, myself, and I stopping me from living. Seriously…what am I trying to prove???  That I’m better, stronger, more responsible than the people having fun?!?!?  I had to tell myself to get real.  When I got real I discovered quite a few intersting things about myself.   I am divinely made with purpose and it is up to me to step into and embrace all this “p.h.a.p.ulousness”  (YES  I made it up) That’s my motto.  I am P.H.A.P.ulous…that is Pretty Haute and Powerful!!!!  Basically I am have turned my shoulda, woulda, coulda to shoulda, coulda, would you? into Show Nuff, Can Do and Watch ME!!!

Until the next time,

P.H.A.P.-ulously me 🙂



Filed under: Food For Thought — p.h.a.p.ulous @ 7:22 pm

This is my very first post!!!  I am so excited to see where this journey takes me.  I am normally a private person who likes to keep my thoughts journaled away from prying eyes.  So this for me is a new journey of self discovery and a way to overcome some shyness.  I am excited to see where this leads.  I have to admit I have been thinking about blogging for a while, but was a little hesitant to actually do it.  It took the encouragement from a new friend to give me that extra nudge to go for it.  I will be honest and let you know that I have no expectations with where this will go.  I am just going to allow my words to lead me on this journey.  Hope you enjoy my future posts on phapulous!!!